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2001-12-06 - 1:42 p.m. okay, i was coming to work this morning and thinking about a strange topic...sex. not that it's strange, because we all know it's not. maybe it's the fact that i haven't been getting any lately, who knows, but i was thinking about it. actually, i was thinking about morlas/beliefs and sex. all this started yesterday when i took the slut test. one of the questions asked does there need to be love to have sex. i said no, maybe that's why it said i was %65 slut, who knows. that made me think, is that wrong to think like me? i know i was raised a good christian girl and i still hold those values close to me, but i don't see anything wrong with having sex and not loving the person you are doing it with. here is the 'but' though...you have to be okay with it. if you believe it is okay to have sex without loving that person, no problem, go ahead and do it because you believe it is okay. but if you feel that it's wrong to have sex without loving that person and you do it anyway, then you are wrong. why? because you are going against what you believe and you should never go against your beliefs, it just ain't right. you shouldn't do it to be cool or because others are doing it. it just ain't right. do it because you want to. now i don't really believe in love so i can't wait for love to have sex. i'm no nypho, but i ain't a saint either. don't get me wrong, i believe in love as far as friendship and family and stuff like that, but as far as being in love....let me just say i haven't been in love and i see no reason why i should. i have good examples, my parents, but i think my dad was the last good man. well, gotta go to a meeting. |
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